Commandment 5 – Honor Thy Father and Thy Mother


“Honor thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.” — Exodus 20:12 KJV

The fifth commandment teaches us to respect and honor our parents and authority figures. Just as a cowboy relies on guidance from experienced hands to navigate the trails safely, believers are called to listen, learn, and respect those God has placed in authority. This commandment protects family relationships, builds character, and encourages obedience to God.

What This Commandment Means

This commandment emphasizes:

  • Respect for parents and authority
  • Gratitude for upbringing and guidance
  • Building a foundation of integrity and obedience 🌟

Honoring parents is more than outward actions—it includes respectful words, grateful hearts, and living in a way that reflects their teaching and God’s wisdom.

“Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.” — Ephesians 6:1 KJV

How It Protects Us

Observing this commandment protects us spiritually and relationally:

  • Strengthens Family Bonds: Encourages love, trust, and mutual respect.
  • Guides Life Choices: Wisdom from parents helps avoid pitfalls.
  • Spiritual Blessing: God promises protection and long life for honoring parents.

Practical Ways to Follow This Commandment

  • Speak respectfully to your parents and elders, even in disagreement.
  • Express gratitude through actions and words regularly.
  • Follow the godly advice and wisdom they provide.
  • Pray for your parents and family, asking God to bless and guide them.

Respect and honor in family life reflects obedience to God and strengthens your walk of faith.

Reflection Questions

  • How do I show respect and honor to my parents or authority figures?
  • Are there areas where I take guidance for granted?
  • How can I live in a way that honors God and my parents simultaneously? 🌿

Quick Summary

  • Meaning: Respect, honor, and obey parents and authority.
  • Protection: Strengthens family, builds character, and brings God’s blessing.
  • Application: Speak respectfully, show gratitude, follow godly advice, pray for family.
  • Key Verses: Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:1-3

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